To get the best out of your doctor you need to be well-informed and provide honest and accurate information.
In order to be well informed you should read about the menstrual cycle so that you understand how the cycle works, know about hormonal changes and their effect, and understand what endometriosis is. This can be achieved either by yourself or by your doctor suggesting reading material and other sources of information. You can also contact your local women’s health information centre.
It is important to recognise that your doctor is not a mind reader, and that it is up to you to tell her or him what your problems are so that your doctor can get an overall picture of your illness. Identify the major areas of concern for you — infertility, pain control, improvement of lifestyle.
It may be a good idea to keep a diary in which you can record your visits to your doctor and make notes of any side effects of drugs or surgery or other treatments suggested by your doctor and list questions for future visits.
Be honest about symptoms and make sure the information you give is complete, accurate and relevant. It is of no benefit to you to withhold information.
It is important to be able to talk openly to your doctor and to feel that you can discuss your needs and fears.
If you have concerns about the side effects of drug therapy, you should feel comfortable discussing these with your doctor. If you have printed information about drugs or treatment you want to discuss, take this with you to the appointment so that your doctor can comment.
Always report the positive as well as the negative feelings you may be experiencing.
Vital decisions and concerns such as marriage, sexual relationships, careers and children should also be discussed with your doctor since these make up the total picture.
Imp roving consultations
Start by writing down any information you need prior to the appointment. Your questions should also be written down and added to during the consultation.
Repeat information back to the doctor to make sure that you have heard and understood everything correctly. Ask for diagrams and illustrations to help you understand the information the doctor provides.
Take a friend or partner or relative along for moral support; it is important that family and friends be informed about your disease.
During the appointment take notes if necessary and ask the doctor to write down any instructions.
Although difficult at times, try to control your emotions when talking to your doctor as this will make it easier to understand the information and take notes.
Realistic expectations
It is reasonable to expect your doctor to ask if you understand vital aspects of your proposed treatment regime and for that information to be expressed in terms that you understand. To achieve this your doctor first needs to establish your level of knowledge on both the technical and medical aspects of the disease.
It is not reasonable to put doctors on a pedestal and to accept all their advice without question. Let your doctor know what your expectations are — different women will have different needs and expectations.
It is not reasonable to have unrealistic expectations of what your doctor can achieve. For instance, the disease may not always respond to the best treatment available so it would be unfair to get angry with your doctor. Remember, doctors do not have all the answers to endometriosis — or anything else for that matter. They, too, can get frustrated with the lack of ‘cures’.
Making the right decision
Start by evaluating your doctor’s recommendations in the light of your own needs. If you want advice and guidance but also want to make your own decisions about treatment, then let your doctor know.
Trust
No doctor wants to feel that her or his credibility is being challenged but, equally, no woman should ever feel intimidated.
Let your doctor know that you respect her or his opinion but expect open and mutual communication and trust. You should trust your doctor’s level of knowledge just as the doctor should have respect for your judgements.
Confidentiality is also important and you must feel that information is confidential to both you and your doctor.
Your doctor needs to be able to trust that you have followed the treatment plan you both have agreed upon.
What is informed consent
Informed consent occurs when a woman has sufficient information about the proposed treatments or procedures to consider the options without pressure and to accept — or decline — treatment. Informed consent requires an explanation of the proposed treatment as well as an explanation of the risks and benefits. It is essential that a woman be given enough time to ask questions, discuss alternatives; a woman needs to know that she can withdraw her consent at any time.
It is important that you understand what you are consenting to — so a discussion with your doctor is essential. A doctor may make you feel that she or he is a busy person — far too busy to be bothered by trifling questions. However, you must make sure that you understand fully any treatment your doctor is suggesting for you — whether it be drug treatment or surgery — so that you are capable of giving your informed consent.
A woman who understands is far more likely to co-operate with her future treatment. It is reasonable to expect your doctor to ask if you have any further questions or if there is any other information that you would like.
Getting information
If you feel that you do not have enough information to give your informed consent then you should ask for further information This should include a detailed explanation of the diagnosis, what the diagnosis means and the various ways that your condition could be managed. Talk about the options and their likely outcomes. Other considerations should include:
will there be any pain or discomfort
what are the risks of the proposed treatments
what are the side effects
should I get a second opinion
what are the alternatives
what is the outcome if I have no treatment
how much will it cost
will my health fund cover the cost
how long will I be away from work.
To get answers to all of these questions you may have to be assertive. Many women complain they find it difficult to be assertive and demanding with their doctor but remember it is your body and you must take control.
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